Selective Assistance

Narcissists may or may not be helpful individuals, depending on the circumstances at the time.  My husband goes out of his way to be helpful to his blood relatives, friends, and people he doesn't even know personally.  As his wife, I get treated like trash... or the dirt beneath his shoes.  He is extremely hard-pressed to exert one iota of his energy to accomplish something in my behalf.  Yet, I continuously witness him expend boundless energy assisting others in matters that are less important.  As a side note, I am very well aware that there are many men who are married to female narcissists, so please don't think that I think only men are narcissists.  My e-zine is simply a reflection of my own perspective as a woman married to a male narcissist.  To the men dealing with their narcissistic wives, you are in my prayers and I hope I am in yours as well.  When it comes to narcissists who give selective assistance, have you ever experienced this?  Please leave a comment about it.  Read about it in the second Issue of Little Narc E-zine!